Heroes?

 

In our knee-jerk reaction to emotional incidents throughout our lives, perspective can easily be swept to one side. This seems to be especially true with police officers. A friend recently posted this meme, that labels Sargent Paul Tuozzolo a “hero”.  Sgt Tuozzolo was shot and killed in the line of duty by a bad guy in Bronx, New York on Friday. Certainly I feel terrible for his family, but this "hero" label is used pretty loosely, much the same way we call too many musicians and actors “superstars”.  Unlike a lot of people in the military, Sgt Tuozzolo wasn't drafted. He applied for the job and was well aware that it involved risks. High risks. It's the 15th most dangerous job in the USA, but Is anyone who dies on a job that they knew was dangerous a hero? Did he jump in front of a friend and take a bullet for them? Did he intentionally sacrifice his own life to save others?  Did he do something above and beyond the job he was hired to do? If so, yes, he is a hero. Otherwise, he is a sad casualty of a highly risky profession, a profession which he chose to be his life’s work.  

When a police officer gets killed in the line of duty, whole communities stop and pay their respects, as they should, often referring to the death as a “tragedy”. But aren’t all unintentional deaths a tragedy? Cops are #15 on the list of “Most Dangerous Jobs in the USA”. What about trash collectors in the #5 spot? When a trash man gets run over in the street, does the whole community mourn? Do they support a funeral procession of 100 garbage trucks, lights on and all intersections opened by police so there is a continuous flow of traffic to the cemetery? After all, the trash guy was serving the community in his job too.

Don’t get me wrong. In no way am I “anti-cop”, hey, I’m glad they are out there and my hat is off to them. No way would I want to do what they do, but then I don’t want to be a trash collector either. Both chose their respective professions. The electrical power-line workers who restored our service after Hurricane Matthew a few weeks ago are #9 on the list. They pulled long hours to get us going again. Are they heroes or were they just doing a job that they know is dangerous and may occasionally demand very long hours to get power restored after a natural disaster?

Ours is a coastal town with many locals who work in fishing related industries. That’s listed as the #2 most dangerous job. When does the accidental death of a local fisherman get anything more than the standard obituary on page 5?

If cops are heroes for doing their jobs, so is the trash guy and so is the fisherman. Right?  

All of these deaths are tragedies, all are heroes, no one any more than another, but that’s not how we treat them in our communities.

Why is that?

Most Dangerous Jobs of 2014
2014 RANK OCCUPATION FATAL INJURIES PER 100,000 PEOPLE TOTAL DEATHS
1 Logging workers 110.9 78
2 Fishers and related fishing workers 80.8 22
3 Aircraft pilots and flight engineers 64 82
4 Roofers 47.4 83
5 Refuse and recyclable material collectors 35.8 27
6 Farmers, ranchers, and other agricultural managers 26.7 270
7 Structural iron and steel workers 25.2 15
8 Driver/sales workers and truck drivers 24.7 880
9 Electrical power-line installers and repairers 19.2 25
10 Taxi drivers and chauffeurs 18 68
11 First-line supervisors of construction trades and extraction workers 17.9 130
12 Construction laborers 16.9 208
13 First-line supervisors of landscaping, lawn service, and grounds keeping workers 16.4 33
14 Maintenance and repairs workers, general 14.4 68
15 Police and sheriff's patrol officers 13.5 97
16 Grounds maintenance workers 13.1 158
17 First-line supervisors of mechanics, installers, and repairers 12.3 38
18 Painters, construction and maintenance 10.8 46
19 Electricians 10.4 79
20 Telecommunications line installers and repairers 10 19

Instagram Starz...

Hannah’s Instagram account just passed 161,000 followers, 60,000 of those are new this month. She and Pablo are experiencing remarkable growth; advertisers and sponsors are beginning to beat a path to their door.

“Social media is the intersection of tech and culture. Instagram happens to be the fastest growing social media site at the moment with over 400 million users.”

Now to put that into perspective, the most followed human on earth right now is Selena Gomez. Gomez is followed by 69.7 million people, which is more than the entire population of France. Right after her are people like Taylor Swift, Beyonce, Ariana Grande, and yes, Kim Kardashian.

Other pop stars, rappers, and famous athletes make the “top 100” list as do all the rest of the Jenner’s and Kardashians. Certainly that tells us something about our culture and who we admire, at least the young people anyway. But if you’re looking for a little more depth, more substance, take comfort in knowing that National Geographic’s Instagram account weighs in at #10.

Cara Devlinge and Zendaya are in the top 26 but I have no idea who they are.

So maybe having 161,000 followers isn’t exactly earth shattering when you look at it that way, but I can’t help being proud of the fact that there are so many people who want to follow a positive example of health, fitness, and balance. Over 200 newbies every hour of the day, 24-7.

High five to Hannah and Pablo. They kick ass.

Hannah always has.

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Put a Lid on It...

I’ve done this before, asked my Facebook peeps for your hat preferences, but feedback last time was minimal. I think I offered too many choices…or maybe, people just didn’t give a shit and kept scrolling down, looking for something more interesting. I understand, that’s what I did when I first saw my own post.

Let’s keep it simple. This time there are only two hat choices: A or B? Which one should I try to wear out in public before I rip it off and throw it into a closet for another year? One year from now just I’ll repost my query when Facebook pushes me with their “One Year Ago” prompt
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But if the vote is clear this time, I won’t post this again. It’s no big corundum, simply pick hat A or B. What say you?

You see, the real problem here, is that I don’t wear hats. Ever. Truth is, I hate hats. But I’m hating baldness even more these days. I feel self-conscious about strutting around sporting a head that looks like a penis with a face.

So maybe I’ll break down and put on a hat, even if doing so causes me extreme hat rage, which it does.  I start to scream inside, doing my best to suppress the urge to cut someone with a sharp object and lap their blood dispassionately like a bored domestic cat. Hats do that to me. But this bald thing? Now that really pisses me off and I think maybe it would be best for everyone if I learn how to put a lid on it.

What’s your pick, A or B?

(BTW, that thing I'm doing with my mouth? That's a warm smile.)